As if it weren’t enough to deal with forgetfulness and confusion while
caring for your loved-one with Alzheimer’s, but aggressiveness,
wandering and paranoia can really put you over the edge. Managing your
loved-one’s difficult behavior is your true testament of love and
devotion. You know it isn’t their fault, it is their disease that is
making them scream, cry or yell terrible things out at you. Who ever said
patience is a virtue, didn’t care for a loved-one with Alzheimer’s or
dementia. Perhaps a caregiver’s only defense is to understand how to
react to difficult behaviors and be ready for them.
Difficult behaviors can be broken down into the following categories:
Wandering, Sleeping and Eating Problems, Agitation, Paranoia and
difficulty with personal tasks. This is not to say these categories are
the only forms of behavioral problems displayed by people living with
Alzheimer’s, but their remedies may intersect other problems.
Wandering is not an uncommon hallmark of Alzheimer’s disease or
dementia. Stress in the variety of noise, clutter or crowding can cause
your loved-one to wander. The best idea is to reduce excess stress. A
person living with Alzheimer’s disease should be settled in a quiet,
clean, and spacious environment. This will eliminate many of the unwanted
stressors, which could cause your loved-one to wander. Other reasons why
your loved-one may wander include: Feelings of being lost, boredom, need
to use the restroom or medication side effects.
In order to prevent your loved-one from feeling lost or foreign to his
or her environment, provide them with familiar objects and reassure them
quite frequently that they are at home or in a safe place. Maybe a family
photo or an award he or she has won always jogs their memory so keep it
close by. If your loved-one displays signs of boredom, give them a task of
limited difficulty. This will keep them entertained but won’t frustrate
them. Folding laundry is a great activity for people living with
Alzheimer’s or dementia.
It is possible that your loved-one is wandering because they need to
use the bathroom. In which case, place elaborate signs or pictures on
bathroom doors to help guide them. Also, it is a good idea for you to
implement regular toilet times. This will keep both of you on schedule. If
your loved-one is wandering due to medication side effects, contact their
physician to initiate a change in prescription or to lower the dosage.
Wandering can be a dangerous behavior. Caregivers should contact their
local Alzheimer’s Association to obtain information about ‘The
Wanderers Program’ in their area.
People living with Alzheimer’s or dementia often experience sleeping
and eating problems. Common causes for these problems include: discomfort,
medication, pain, dehydration, depression and excessive sleeping or
eating.
Feeling discomfort can sometimes not be conveyed by your loved-one
depending upon the severity of the disease but it can cause eating and
sleeping disturbances. Frequently monitor your loved-one’s room
temperature, lighting, noise level, and chair or bed position. If you
think your loved-one’s medications could be curbing his or her appetite
or ability to sleep, speak to their doctor about changing or eliminating
prescriptions.
Pain can be a factor in eating or sleeping disturbances. Again,
sometimes a person with Alzheimer’s or dementia cannot express their
feelings; if you sense a change in appetite or sleeping pattern has
suddenly occurred without due cause, set an appointment for a medical
examination. Dehydration is a known factor of sleeping and eating
disturbances. Make sure your loved-one is drinking plenty of water. Place
a pitcher filled with water near your loved-one at all times. Remind them
it is there frequently and check to make sure it remains somewhat full.
Too full can result in another problem- slip and falls.
If you feel your loved-one is showing signs of depression, have him or
her evaluated by their physician. Anti-depressants or bedtime sedatives
may be a productive treatment option. Depression can also cause excessive
sleeping or eating. In which case, increase their exposure to light and
reduce or eliminate nap time or snack time.
Defined:
Behavioral problems are defined as patient responses, which are considered
noxious to staff, other patients, the patient himself, or family (Burgio,
Jones, Butler, & Engel, l988). Behavioral problems have a profound
impact on quality of care, staff, morale and the day-to-day operation of
the long-term care institution
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